I have been reading and listening to some spiritual books and literatures, and I have an interesting insights of who I am. It sounds simple and everyone knows it. I have realized that I am what I think.
Whatever I think defines the person I am right now. So if I think like a person I want to become, I turn out to be that person. For instance, in the face of a challenge, if the thoughts someone brings in his mind is self defeating and discouraging, then he can be defined as a loser. However, if he pursue positive thoughts and emotions, then it is a different story. If we exclude past and future from a person, then his thoughts are the best way to define who he could be in this very moment.